cuddles for free


I was looking at Lori's blog this morning. It is so peaceful and relaxing. What a great life she leads! Take a moment to check it out

Still no word from BF--- and NO I am not going to call him. Once, I chased a man who I should have let go and was married to him for twenty years. Look how that turned out. Nope, I need a man who can suck it up and do what needs to be done. It might even be nice for someone to pursue ME for one stinkin once! Flowers, hearts, love, affection, I DESERVE those things. I was putting all the effort into making him happy and I am tired of things being one sided. Am I really just a puppy who is going to be happy following its master around for the occasional cuddle? (Yes. but that's beside the point!) :D I'm trying to do things differently this time. Shheez. help me out would ya :)

Comments

  1. TAGDecember 5, 2009 at 7:18 AM

    Sounds to me like it's time to change how you describe this fellow. Is it time to refer to him as the ex boyfriend?

    Do as you wish. Were I in that situation I'd pack his stuff and make it clear to him that it goes on the curb in one week. If he wants it, he should come get it. If he doesn't want it, the garbage men or random folks from the neighborhood can claim it as they will.

    It's time to be strong Jaybee. It's time to rise up and proclaim that you are the guarantor of your future, your happiness and your self esteem. Nobody but you can control the things you do. Take charge and make your life into what you want it to be. If you wait for others, it is unlikely they'll get the job done on your time frame or in a manner consistent with what you want.

    TAG

    ReplyDelete
  2. JulieDecember 5, 2009 at 12:46 PM

    Thanks, TAG. I know you are right. I'll try.

    ReplyDelete
  3. JulieDecember 5, 2009 at 12:49 PM

    Thanks, TAG. I know you are right. I'll try.

    ReplyDelete

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

Empty Arms

Image
It was a rough weekend. I was feeling pretty blue to begin with--grieving the loss of my little family which has shattered to pieces, leaving just me and my son under one roof. Dunno what precipitated that pity party, but it was going on since Thursday. Friday, Son's father didn't call, text, or come to pick him up. Son was not inclined to make the effort either. I guess he figures that if his father wants him, he'd initiate. Saturday morning was particularly rough because Son had Saturday School---kind of like detention on Saturday, for being tardy to class after PE. Moving fast is not his strong suit ever. Plus, he doesn't wake up and get going easily either. Basically, Saturday was filled with Son's fussing, homework, tears, slamming of doors,and lot's of I-hate-you's. Yeah, pretty miserable all the way around. I think maybe it was a reaction to how he feels about what's happening with his dad. OR not happening. It culminated in Son sobbing in hi
Read more

Keystone Cops R US

Image
Okay, we just did a Keystone Cops routine . I went in, puppies ran out. English bulldog from next door chased puppies around the yard. I chased English bulldog who was chasing the puppies around the yard, into my house where I chased them all aroun d again until they all ran back outside. Got puppies back in and English bulldog out. Opened the door to call my son in, and they were off!!!!! Did it all again, but this time, the neighbor lady and her daughter chased the bulldog who was chasing the puppies and I chased her and her daughter who were chasing the puppies, back into my house again. Whew, I'm tired!
Read more

X's birthday, X in law birthdays... what should I do

Oh, I almost forgot. I have a question for you all. My X's mother's birthday just passed. His father's birthday is in a week or so and his birthday a bit after. I thought about having the kids call their Oma (grandma) to wish happy birthday but opted not to. I think he should be responsible for that. What do I do about this and/or his upcoming birthday? Do I have the kids do something? He didn't bother for me last year when we were separated..... Ideas anyone?
Read more